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Terms of use

Last updated: September 2026

By using Charmlet you agree to these terms. Please read them carefully, as they govern your use of our AI-powered dating assistant.

Service scope

Charmlet does not access your accounts on dating or messaging apps and never sends messages on your behalf. You provide conversation context (e.g. screenshots or pasted text) and send all messages yourself in the other app. Charmlet suggests replies for you to review and use, and couple activities. You remain in full control.

Data handling, usage analytics, and privacy choices are described in our Privacy Policy.

Not a dating app

Charmlet is not a dating app. You will not find people to connect with here, and Charmlet does not introduce you to anyone. Charmlet writes the messages. You copy them and paste them into Tinder, Bumble, Badoo, WhatsApp, or any other app.

Age requirement

Charmlet is 18+ only. You must be at least 18 years old to use the service.

AI-Generated Content

Charmlet uses artificial intelligence to suggest replies and couple activities. The outputs are mere suggestions and may be inaccurate, inappropriate, or out of context. You must review all generated content before using it or sending it. We assume no liability for the content generated by the AI or how it is received.

Charmlet is designed to suggest natural replies that match your tone and style, and couple activities. You remain solely responsible for reviewing messages before you send them, and for checking any suggested place or plan before you go.

Acceptable Use

You agree not to use this service to generate or transmit content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, or otherwise objectionable. Abusive behavior also includes circumventing or exploiting usage limits (e.g. on the Pro plan) or systematically exploiting the service. You may not use scripts, bots, or other automation to circumvent usage limits or to use the service in ways not intended by us. We reserve the right to terminate or suspend accounts that violate this policy without notice.

Disclaimer of Warranties & No Responsibility for Outcomes

Charmlet is strictly a tool that suggests replies and couple activities. The service is provided on an "as is" and "as available" basis without warranties of any kind. We are not responsible for any conversations you have, any messages you send or receive, or any outcomes, including dates, relationships, emotional distress, or personal harm. If Charmlet suggests a place or a plan, you are solely responsible for checking it before you go, including hours, address, safety, reservations, and whether it still exists. We are not responsible for the venue, the outing, or anything that happens if you go. You are solely responsible for your communication and actions.

Limitation of Liability

TO THE FULLEST EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW, IN NO EVENT SHALL CHARMLET OR ITS CREATORS BE LIABLE FOR ANY INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL OR PUNITIVE DAMAGES, OR ANY LOSS OF PROFITS, DATA, OR GOODWILL, RESULTING FROM YOUR USE OR INABILITY TO USE THE SERVICE.

Modifications and Availability

We do not guarantee uninterrupted, secure, or error-free operation. We reserve the right to modify or discontinue the service at any time without notice.

Plans

Charmlet has a free plan. Pro is optional and billed monthly. If a Pro trial is offered, a payment method may be required before that trial starts. You are not charged when you enter your card details. If you cancel before the trial ends, you are not charged and the account continues on the free plan. If you do not cancel, the monthly Pro price starts automatically. Usage limits during a trial or on Pro are shown in the app and may change. Daily counts reset at midnight in your local time. We may change these limits at any time without prior notice.

Pro plan: fair use

The Pro plan is not unlimited: it is subject to a daily AI usage limit (including message generations, couple activities, image extraction, and other AI features). This limit resets at midnight (your local time) each day, so you get consistent, predictable use, and is in place to keep the service sustainable and fair for everyone. We may change this limit at any time without prior notice. We reserve the right to modify the limit or suspend accounts exhibiting abusive behavior.

When going-out ideas are offered, you can generate them up to the monthly limit shown in the app. That going-out limit comes from the same monthly AI budget as your daily usage, but using it does not shrink the daily bar. Stay-in ideas and your messages use the daily bar only. We may change these limits at any time.

Pro includes features such as: higher daily AI allowance, more advanced AI for natural suggestions, custom prompt per conversation, typing style matching (with your writing examples), unlimited saved conversations and profiles, Charmlet automatically compares your profile to theirs (how well you might match, with a score), Connection Check (how the conversation is going, their interest level, and a quick recap), and couple activities.

Refunds

Before any charge, Charmlet shows the amount and the date more than once, both on the trial and on an upgrade. During the trial, canceling does not create any charge.

A charge that has already gone through is not eligible for a refund. This includes the first charge after the trial and any upgrade you confirmed.

The exception is a technical failure. If a problem in Charmlet stops you from using what you paid for, reach out through the app. Once we confirm the problem, the amount is returned.

Account closure and data deletion

You may permanently delete your account and associated data from the app at any time via My account → Delete my account. If you have an active paid subscription, you must cancel it first through the billing flow. When you confirm deletion, your conversations, profiles, AI-generated messages and ideas, and other data linked to your account are permanently erased from our servers for privacy reasons. This cannot be undone and your data cannot be recovered afterward. Some anonymized usage information may be retained as described in our Privacy Policy.

Access by Charmlet

Authorized Charmlet personnel may access your conversations, profiles, generated messages, and suggested ideas only when necessary to maintain the service, investigate abuse, or comply with legal obligations. Such access is logged and strictly monitored to protect your privacy, and limited to the minimum required for these purposes.

Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. Continued use of the service after any change constitutes your acceptance of the updated terms.

Governing Law

These terms are governed by the laws of the jurisdiction applicable to your use of the service. Any disputes arising from these terms or the service shall be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of that jurisdiction.

Contact

For questions about these terms, contact us through the app or the channels indicated on the website.